So true. I periodically purge and then return to my closetted dressing. I do also feel attracted to other dressers when I am dressed or in a heightened sexual state, but I am basically heterosexual.
I would love to have a few friends who feel the same-possibly dress together but nothing more.
In the past I have found that fantasies should probably stay that way. for about 80% of the time I am happy as I am.