Give it time it’s not written in stone Bee. My wife is completely supportive. We’ve been together over 20 years, earlier this year we had the talk. Every marriage has its up’s and downs, but we truly have a great one. That being said I still waited over 20 years because either the time wasn’t right, I didn’t have the courage, or I didn’t think she was ready to hear it. I tried to bring it up about 15 years ago, got a lukewarm response, but it was progress. The next day I went so far as to shave my legs, put out a pair of black stockings, and surprise her. The response I got from her back then told me this was not going to work. In retrospect it was the right thing to do, my daughter was very young and needed a father not two mothers. The point I’m making is patience is a virtue. As I mentioned we’ve had a wonderful marriage even though I had to keep my crossdressing private, so there’s no rush, baby steps. Best of luck to you Bee, I’m here if you need help
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