I was born in the late 60s and I know the generation gap going on. Like my senior family members (ones older than me) They already give me grief. Because a photo got outside my household of me in a two piece bikini.
I just played it off as playing a prank on my buddy. So this Christmas I went and had Christmas cards made up of me in the hot pink bikini and on the bottom it says “wish you were have, having a great time”
I figure play it up and let it be a running joke to keep the peace of the older family members that don’t get it.