Hi Charlotte. Love your name, have two close connection s with it. I know what you mean. As a man I find I just say what I need to to fit into the situation or person I’m talking to. Like a mirror.
Trish on the other hand is softer, freer to express herself. give her thoughts more freely and tbh takes less nonsense her counterpart.
If you can tell someone you think can take your femme side. A GG if possible. It brings your feminine side out brilliantly. I don’t have a fem voice yet but Im finding it and convosation helps.