My now Ex wife was told on our first date, as the date ran late she ended up sleeping at my apartment(on the couch of course) I just felt very comfortable with her (she is still the only adult in my life that knows), and I just felt super uncomfortable in the clothes I wore for our date. I was nervous to tell her
But i just wanted to get into my PJ set I had bought about a week prior but never ended up wearing, so I flat out told her I figured either she can accept it or not it was no big loss for me as it was a first date. She was surprisingly accepting, we ended up dating for 3 years the got married in 2009 when she got Pregnant with my daughter. There were up and down with the CDing for sure but it was never a break the relationship thing.