I dress more fem than my wife. She dresses pretty casual for the most part, jeans and sweaters or sweat shirts in the winter, shorts and t-shirts in the summer. Even for work she wears slacks and kind of basic tops. She almost never wears dresses or heels.
Although I have casual outfits too, I have way more dresses than her, and more jewelry. I definitely wear heels more than her, even if it is just around the house 🙂
With that said, we do share blouses, sweaters, and tops. Sometimes I wear hers, sometimes she swipes mine for work. When we went to dinner for our anniversary she actually wore one of my dresses 🙂 We share jewelry a lot as well.