This girl sits, every time it is possible to choose, whether drab or dressy. Unless it is an urgent situation, my first look at a ‘men’s’ room when I open the door will determine if I even use those facilities when in drab. More and more establishments are adding a ‘family’ restroom option, and I will use those if available. If I am out in my normal ladies attire, then the ladies room.
Look down at your shoes the next time you stand to go, outside in the woods, at the urinal, or the commode, and you will see ‘splash’ on your shoes. Then, just think about standing while holding up your skirt, pulling down your panties and pantyhose and then taking relief.