Glad to have you here.
I’m Cherrie I’ve gone through the same thing. It sucks as hell. Plus she was very abusive. I spent four years with an ex. And after I left the abusive relationship. She got so mad that she broke into my storage shed and threw all of my stuff away or sold it. Just not my dresses, wigs, ect. But all of my other clothes and gaming systems that I collected over the years. All I can say is, I feel your pain.