It’s an interesting question, and intentionally or not it asks “what do you really want?” I don’t want to transition, even if it was like a magic wand thing, where you get everything you think you want. I just want to be me… now. I’m happily married, and don’t want to do anything to rock that boat. I worked too hard to get here, and waited way too long for her.
Now, on the other hand… if I had been given this magical opportunity back when I was 21 or so, living just outside San Francisco, I’d have gone to all the best lesbian bars in a city noted for such places, and had all the fun a girl could have. Bridgette is a lesbian, after all…
But like I said, that was then, and this is now. Like Stephanie said, I chose to remain Bridgette…or Galadriel… whatever my name is or isn’t, lol!