After college i gradually stopped dressing. After over 20 years I started again. I knew of a lingerie shop that had crossdressing clients. I went there to check it out and learn more.
While waiting and looking at the hosiery and lingerie, I saw a guy there looking over at me and looking very nervous. I thought he was just embarrassed about being in a sexy lingerie shop. I went outside for a while to let him shop or do whatever without me making him nervous.
When I saw him leave I went back inside to speak to the owner. She apologized for not being attentive to me sooner. I told her it was fine. Then i told her I wanted to know more about her crossdressing services. That’s when she told me the guy who was in here when I came in was there for the same thing. I suggested she tell him I was there for the same thing and maybe we could meet.
We did meet, dress, get a makeover, talked and just enjoyed being girls. Then I got involved with other events and other dresser clients. We dressed, got makeovers, talked, took photos and even encouraged each other to go out dressed.
We would do little things like stand outside for a little. Then maybe walk to a car and put something in it. Then walk a few stores away and back. Eventually the goal for many of us was to walk down the street to the corner. Cross it. Walk back on the other side across from the shop, cross the street and go back to the shop.
it had been a long time since I did that. I remembered the fear, then the excitement. Once the excitement kicked in I didn’t want it to end. Upon coming back to the shop, those of us who did it were just so giddy. I made sure every time I went to that shop to do that walk even if no one else did.
So these little bra, panty, shoe or dress fittings can lead to a whole lot more. I think if I was in a new area and found a shop like that, I would find out if they had any services or events for girls like us.