Hi Steph… welcome!
I started my journey with a name that I have liked since… well, many years nay decades ago… Harriet. Still love the name but I found that it doesn’t suit my personality at all. Maybe it suits the ‘aunt’ type that I started out like but never really being anything but a jolly hockey sticks girl that UK readers will be familiar with.
After swiftly passing through other iterations of aunt-like names and and other more fanciful names… I, quite by accident, found a name that suits.
If you are at all keen on finding a new name the download a list of girl’s names a start crossing out the ones that you don’t have any affiliation with until you are faced with a list that may take you some time to sort.
Once you have that particular name then you can start dressing to that alter ego. It is an alter ego and it does require you keep to that way.
So… choose and step out with that name, Sister!