Hi Steph, welcome to the CDH family. I’m still relatively young thus have no children, but spent most of my childhood with my mum as my primary carer and a sister. So quite a feminine household. My dad only came into the picture when I was 12.
Name wise, I chose something that means very little to me. Trisha was a character in a Emmerdale, a UK soap. I always like how she lived. I may change it in the future but may not so try and not to overthink it.
It sounds like you are taking a good approach with your SO.
Feel free to ask questions or post how you are feeling on CDH honey I guarantee you’ll get good advice. Can’t wait to get to know you more honey.