I just love the term ‘lipstick lesbian’! That’s so me…
To be frank, the idea of dressing in one another’s clothing has been around since the dawn of civilization. The Greeks thought homosexual love to be the height of form and Romans despised it! Both cultures cross dressed but one doesn’t read of women indulging quite as freely as men did. In fact there are very few women during our histories that have made a name for themselves dressed as men. The very fact that we have their stories only endorses the idea that it was a rare feat.
Yes… I’d say that 90% of crossdressers are straight males. That we do it for differing reasons is above argument but at some time I think we all indulge in some homosexual fantasy. Realizing such a fantasy may very well be a bridge too far for the majority but in some instances that’s why we dress in a feminine way.
For myself… I’m on my way to realizing my long cherished dream of becoming female… though a lesbian, if that’s how I am to be judged!