My wife of now 36 yrs, caught me 6 yrs ago.
At 1st she said , ” shaving all the hair off your body, & found a PR. Of Black panties in the bed . She was thinking Gay Cheating!!
Nope ,neither, CDER! THAT’S when I got caught,and have never regretted it.
She then told all her lady friends, they ,in turn told the husbands. I had gay & lesbian friends that I partied among. Some of the sister in laws asked me out. Went to the PH.D. to complain about work tress .I always went dressed, every Saturday…could hardly wait for the week time end.
That was my story & I am sticking to it.