Reply To: Close to telling SO

[Michelle Trott]

I was not so brave. My SO caught me fully dressed all decked out. She was very supportive and relieved. She had found a few of my things and was worried I was having a affair. It has changed everything for me. Her support and the changes it allowed has added a bit of spice between us. She said I am her man and her best girlfriend. That being said my first wife would have hung me out to dry and exposed me to everyone. You should have a feeling how your SO will react? I hope you have the courage to do what I couldn’t. She was only upset that I was afraid to confide in her. Not really giving you advice but sharing my experience. This site and you ladies have given me loads of confidence.