I appreciate the thoughtful reply. You make a great point about looking “too good”. I’m very fit with low body fat and she has said it bothers her that my butt looks better in her panties than hers does. Not sure what to say. She is a conservative mid-western girl with a religious upbringing so I think she is afraid I’m at the top of a slippery slope which will lead to all sorts of “unusual” behavior. I try to put her at ease, but we have been together 30 years and my brain has def changed as I came up on 50 earlier this year. Anyway, she knows she is along for the ride so I’ll take the good advice to “take it easy” with her.