I don’t know if I’m alone on this or if others of you agree. My dream would be that my wife would acknowledge and appreciate anything I wear that looks and fits well. I don’t really try to pass or to even look like a woman. I just like wearing feminine clothes. So if my wife could be comfortable and accepting of my wearing jeans or tights with a feminine blouse, shirt, tunic, or sweater and sandals or boots (booties) with 3 to 4 inch heals or wedges, I’d be ecstatic. Since I already go out and about dressing like this, I believe I’d be relaxed and feel normal just adopting my own style while we went about our lives. I also know that, given the freedom to dress as I like, I’d likely continue to enhance my feminine look. At some point I’m certain that I’d take it up (notch by notch) and want to do the full masquerade – with hair, makeup, jewelry, and accessories. But that would come gradually as we both became more comfortable. I love my anonymity and do not want to be the center of attention. At 5-10, 145 lbs, I could appear to be a shapely woman. I’m competent moving in foundation garments, with breast inserts, stilettos, and skirts, dresses, or feminine suits. For now, I really only want her to join me on the journey, not really contribute, but be patient as I find my way. If she could find her way clear to see my feminine choices as similar to her trying a new outfit, a new look, or a new hairstyle, my wish would be reality. Am I dreaming too much?