This will take some courage, but believe me…it’s worth it.
Go to a wig store, and let them put a few on you.
Tell them what you like/have in mind.
Don’t be nervous, they don’t care that you’re male. They want to sell a wig and make a customer that will return.
I spent $200 on my first wig(see my profile pic). It’s a long wig that I love. I recently went back to the same shop and bought another, I wanted a short “bob” cut for summer…
It’s like shopping for a car though, don’t be afraid to walk away if you don’t see the color/model you want.
Best of luck out there sweetie.