Paula F
Registered On: August 7, 2019
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Charlene,  I think too many of us, and I have done it at times too, give up too much of our self in order to avoid confrontation or to be seen as “giving of ourselves”.

There used to be a commercial on TV that quoted “Happy wife, happy life.”  It would come to mind at times when I would see couples out in public where you could plainly see the husband was miserable while the woman was absolutely okay with that.  It happens in the other direction too, entirely too often.

Husband’s are 1/2 of a couple, and the vows do say for better or worse.  Both people vow them to each other, and should honor them WITH each other.

Gay couples do exactly the same thing, it’s just natural to defer to the person who does not “give”.

Communication and being solid in your beliefs is important.  “My way or the highway” is just so wrong.

To be truly happy, we need to be truly ourselves.  Don’t push who or how you are on others, but also don’t surrender to those same people.


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