I’ve said it before and I’ll repeat it again.
For me the true positive and main reason that I am here is that I seek friendship.
As it grows and matures you know the feelings of friends. The intimacy becomes real, shown in words and responses.
I am sure that kiss is lovely and it “ knocks you off your feet” . But being accepted is so far reaching into our ethos. I have not received that physical contact acceptance at home- it is not comparable. But…- I do feel entirely accepted here , I have the love of friends all day- in silence- in words- in gestures of kindness, empathy, support and love. I am valued and I am told that my company is good. That for me is so incredible, given our restraint s here. A kiss is a sign and it is hopefully sincere and passionate. But, I speak for myself here, I would forego a kiss for a hug. Hugs are “‘easy to give” , lovely to feel – and they cry for response. You can deliver any emotional need in a hug and you can still talk too ( the double wammy).
And how about that first hand hold? That first look into the eyes? The meeting of souls.
it’s just me-but hugs do so much more- especially the long ones.
I have no experience of kisses that you speak of. But if you want to read my “ Book Of Hugs”- I’d be only too please to oblige🙂😌😃😉😀
A definite mmmm from me,
Now you know why I sign….
Anya ( Hugs ) the brackets ARE the two arms- and doubles indicates I need yours too.
Aww- Anya’s getting passionate now!!’
love you all- especially if you follow my meaning. And if you don’t- well you have something to look forward too😁
Have a great week !! Anya ((hugs)).
Go on- give someone a huge hug!
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