Registered On: May 17, 2020
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I love your post here…I am a pastor and have been for years and did become discouraged with the messages, and quite frankly left for a season…I actually began attending again after I began cross dressing again, however when I didn’t look for a cd friendly churches, I looked for one that would fulfill my only desire for the church…corporate worship..I did attend several that made it clear that I wasn’t their cup of tea..so I left..I know that this will be a search but I did attend one in Texas that gave me the most encouragement..during my search I had no problem with any pastor or elder sitting down and discussing this from scripture..all of my argument are exact things this post has discussed..as I said earlier I attend for the worship..which for me includes the ability to dance and use flags, and this Texas church offered the opportunity to do exactly that, so out of respect I approached the leadership and asked them if I could be permitted to use my flags..(how cool that would be to dance in church in a dress)..ultimately they decided against it because the didn’t want to explain or seem to agree with my selection of clothing style especially to the kids, however I can continue to attend so I did..I attended for 5 more weeks..here is where it started to change for me..several young girls came up to me and told me I was beautiful..my god I started crying I was so moved..then a few moms and dads started to warm to me..in the weeks I did attend all of my interactions were positive including to rejection..all of this drove me to one place qnd that was right back into the arms of the father who I know loves me as I am and has not rejected me..quite honestly I find he is more pleased with me as I am now..the most important relationship I have is with the one who gave me a fresh start at the cross..if he isn’t condemning me then why should I accept the condemnation of people..they will not judge me in the end..and the same goes from me..Christ calls us to love as the most important characteristic of my faith and walk with him, it isn’t being in the building.. I now attend church in Vegas and every week I show up I hold up my head, i smile and say hi, then go worship in my dress, and I don’t worry as to whether they accept me..I accept them right where they are..I can now love them because Jesus has taught me how to love myself…
Keep attending keep living life for him and don’t lose yourself in the building lose yourself in Christ
Loves Stephanie

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