Reply To: Wife of CD man trying to find my role

[Katie]

Hi Taylor,

First let me say that it is amazing that you are reaching out. I have been in the closet in my previous marriage for 35 years, so I understand how your husband might react. A lot of inspiring answers have been given here already, and  I cannot but agree with all the things that have been written.

I would like to add one more thing: please be aware that it is not only about your SO, but your feelings are just as valid as his. In other words: stay close to yourself as well.

I wish both of you all the best and I am always happy to chat with you if you want.

Best, Katie