Catherine this is entirely up to you dear. Crossdressing is as much about how it makes you feel as anything else. Psychologically speaking, even just wearing panties can give you that wonderful feeling that you have a feminine part of you that no one can take away from you. It is unfortunate that your wife cannot be more understanding and allow you more dressing opportunities but if you love her and don’t want your marriage to end then compliance with her requirements is probably mandatory. A decision like that may be difficult for you to bear, but remember she married a man and maybe having a very difficult time adjusting to your crossdressing. Knowing that you have a feminine part of you that cannot be taken away by anyone may allow you to be satisfied with just wearing panties. There is always hope that you can change her mind later on especially if she sees that not dressing more often makes you unhappy. Just remember you control to a large extent your own happiness. Good luck Catherine in dealing with your current crossdressing situation. You are not the only one having to deal with this type of problem. – Blessings from Teralynn
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