Beautifully written Stephanie, I see my journey through much of what you have said and have had many problematic moments throughout our marriage. A long marriage and the fact I’ve hidden my passions for dressing since meeting her then springing this to her certainly wasn’t fair to her and our relationship. And your absolutely right she’s in charge to what will be accepted or not. Her decisions on progressing forward with all in agreement making everyone happy especially your partner. And Importantly talking is key. It’s a must keep the conversations opened and honest.