Dear Rosibeth,
I suffered with horrible guilt for over 30 years, starting when I was only 13. For me, it stemmed from the beliefs put into my head as a little boy, that only perverts, freaks, pedophiles, and (I’m quoting here) faggots wear girls clothes.
It made me believe that there had to be something wrong with me or why else would I have these feelings that EVERYONE says are wrong?!? Who gave anyone the right to say that we’re something to be despised and ridiculed simply because we want to embrace our feminine side?!? There is nothing to feel ashamed of for liking women’s clothing.
After I told my wife, she helped to see that I had no reason to feel any shame, and just like that, I decided to drop it like a bad habit. I no longer live with the shame of wanting to wear women’s clothing. Instead, I enjoy it! I embrace it! I revel in it! And why not? It makes me feel good and it harms no one. Shame like that is only self destructive.
Leah had some fantastic advice about putting your feminine things in a box instead of tossing them out. Please try that.
Hugs, Jill
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