Maybe a diary is a good idea!
It’d certainly help to break down what it is you feel guilty about.
Any guilt I had left completely when I came out fully to my wife.
She wasn’t particularly accepting and still isn’t – but I questioned deeply what I felt guilty about and why – and couldn’t come to any logical conclusions.
I’m a very emotion driven, artistic type of person, so using cold logic forced me to look at the situation scientifically – and, because I couldn’t find anything that I ought to be guilty or ashamed of, those feelings have really been consigned to the back seat.
That’s not to say they went away, just that if I do start feeling guilty, I pause, gently probe for reasons, find none (concerning cross dressing or how I deal with it) and all is good.
The thing I usually get mist guilty about is the amount of money I can spend supporting this need.
But I do set a budget, and don’t overspend by much – and I really did need a new lippy this month… 😁
What is the top thing that you feel guilty about?
Maybe that would be a useful poll 😀