Reply To: Visible underdressing and women’s wear while presenting as a man.

[Anonymous]

Hi Ashley,

A bit of yes and no from me. I don’t wear undergarments that would show – e.g. a bra under a lightweight summer top. But for instance tops that come off the women’s racks and have an obvious cut – e.g. neckline, half sleeve – and colour mixes that you don’t see men wearing, well that’s fine.

And don’t forget – one of my bugbears – you can also ‘see’ by touch. I get a regular hug from a ggf who I see most days. So without layers, I won’t wear a bra in case she ‘sees’ it.

Marti xxx