Hello from Southern NH. and hope you have a wonderful Holliday season. Not sure where you are but if you look around your area or the nearest city your likely to find some watering holes catering to our species. There are usually a few even in small cities. Even here in NH. our three main cities average just over 100k in population yet we have at least several lively spots in each. And with Boston just an hour away there is always someplace to go.
Good luck, have fun and stay safe.