Hi Carmen,
If being who we are was as easy as just trying to look feminine this world would be a different place. Imagine being without fear of rejection, ridicule and the many negative emotions we keep inside. We could put our best foot forward (in heals of course) and hold our heads high while going about our daily lives. There would be so many more of us openly out on the streets.
The thing is we are who we are on the inside. This makes you – you. Others don’t know what’s going on inside of us. We all wear masks in daily life whether that be male or female. We only let our insides out when we talk openly and honestly. Doing so is often difficult (for some not possible) in daily life. We, here, can relate to those internal conflicts.
I agree with Marcellette. We all have an unconscious bias no matter how hard we try. We like things that appeal to us. When that comes to people we obviously see the outside first. Having beautiful clothes, hair, makeup, figure and possibly passing are for many the things we strive for – all external things. We must remember the person is on the inside and not judge until you know them.
Love Jane X.
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