Hi Kate, I cannot add anymore than what Dream has said and put down in writing so well.
It is great that he has opened up to you and that is something many don’t do through fear and the possibility of rejection. You must also be you – don’t let others sway you. There will be opinions both positive and negative on how you work your way through this. Remember, this is your life and you live it to be happy, live it your way.
Lovely to have you here Kate.
Love Jane X.