I’d like to open with Congratulations!
I recently came out as trans back in late June early July. Sadly I did not record the date. There are quite a few trans support groups online. But it would be improper to list them here. We can talk more privately if you want wish. As I’m sure you would find them very insightful. Crossdresser haven also has a sister sight for trans.
Moving forward you will need to contact a therapist, your PCP and they should provide referrals for endocrinologists, etc for all your gender specific needs.
Expect counciling for your wife also. I understand how things must appear for you right now. But what you may perceived as the finish line is the exact opposite. That’s the starting line and your about to enter the marathon of your life with society throwing hurdles in your way at every turn.
Trans rights have a long way to go before we are treated equally even among medical professionals. I chat with both trans women and men online all the time and your journey could easily last a decade depending who you have to deal with or where you live.
SCOTUS recently decided section Vii of the equal rights act also applies to us but that hardly means other people will follow suit.
Send me a friend request and I’ll be happy to share what I learn.