If I had told a woman I’d been staring at her panty lines for months I’d deserve to be sacked.
Who goes around telling people they know what underwear they have on?
That’s an example of passive aggressive and gaslighting rolled into one – and going to your wife behind your back?
I don’t know your office culture, but I am glad I don’t work there – or if I did, let’s turn this baby about and make a positive:
All you girls have been staring at my butt?
Happy Christmas to you, you saucy minx!
My underwear is my underwear.
I don’t intentionally show it, but if someone notices, I am not ashamed in the slightest, and will not be gaslit to feel like it’s somehow wrong.
Despite my militant core, I will always try to see the funny side, even if I perceive passive aggression. Nothing is worth losing your humour over.