I’m with you! Yes, the anticipation and the transformation itself are arousing – to see Connie slowly appearing in front of my eyes is a turn-on. Not so much as once was, but still arousing. But that doesn’t last. At some point (usually after the shapewear) it becomes relaxing, all warm and fuzzy. I know I’m not a female, nor do I want to be one, but I do love looking like one.