Oh Evany, I feel for you. I have been out to my wife for around 5 years, but up until this year it has been the usual typical male gifts from her. We recently had a heart to heart and for the first time she completely surprised me with a bodice this year. Try to be thankful but honest, or just change them. I don’t think anybody has ever asked me if I am wearing the boxers I was given. Try looking at it as collateral for a swap maybe.