Reply To: New Year, Resolutions

[Jane Plain]

Hi Anya, like others I am not one for Resolutions. My younger self did set one to give up dressing, how stupid!

Again, like many I want to be a better person but that also raises an issue – being overly critical of myself, thinking on the negative where actually I should be positive. I could get myself tied up in knots if I’m not careful.

So, my intention is:

Look for positives in all I do. This should make me a happier person. Being happy will make me more kind to others. A positive cycle, great.

I have issues with anxiety and depression ( I’m sure I’m not alone on this site!). I find my main defence to this is attack. The positives are my ammunition. I am not saying it is easy – it is f-difficult, a living battle. If I can be more positive I can be a better person.

Love Jane X.