I’m not as old as many of you are here, but I do have a thought or two.
Men’s clothing have always had an “occupational” practicality.
At first, men were predominantly warriors, from goat-skins and spears to Medieval chainmail and the deadly mace to khaki army greens and AK47s. The clothing had a “toughness” to last a long time and to save his life!
Women, not traditionally bound by stupid male wars, looked at the world very differently, even though they had to “obey” their man.
So, man comes home from war, is tired, sickened, perhaps shell shocked, and needs the loving care of his woman who had time to knit soft and silky things that man found pleasing to the eye.
So, if a man wants to wear his woman’s clothing, then the presumption is that he wants sexual pleasure. But we all know that this isn’t true! For many of us, it’s NOT always about sex, but something deeper that no one else can get their heads wrapped-around.
As for what women want? I haven’t figured that one out yet. And if anyone ever does, then I hope you become super rich!