Reply To: What got your SO crossover and accept, support, and encourage you?

[Anonymous]

Lea,
One of the basic tenets of human relationships is that you can’t change someone, you can only change yourself. You need only to look at women in abusive relationships who stay, because, “He’ll change.”

Some SOs are just wired differently. Mine will probably never accept, much less help me in my crossdressing. You just have to recognize the boundaries.

I suppose mine is DADT. Unless, that is, she discovers the full extent of my activities and decides, herself, to change.

Much love,
Raquel