Great question, My number one is clearly spending time with my wife including being intimate.
we spend as much time on our boat in the summer as we can so that’s number 2. Skiing with family and friends number 3. My desire and enjoyment with crossdressing has its own special place in my sole. Given different circumstances, say I was divorced and living alone or had a more accepting wife and could be out even slightly the number would be higher for sure.
How my life is makes me keep a kind of damper on my crossdressing. So it’s not as big a part of my life that I wish it was. But it’s the life I’ve chosen and I can’t complain