There was a cute couple at the Keystone Conference where the spouse was introducing both of them to the workshop. Her CD husband just turned 90!!! We all clapped and cheered. She didn’t look 90, but was tasefully dressed, a little make up, and wore her own silver androgenous haircut (short). I was so jealous, b/c she had more natural hair than I did when I was 50.
So, it’s mind over matter – if you don’t mind it doesn’t matter!