For me I was always a little softer than a lot of the guys I worked with. Not that I didn’t have that male ego thing, it was just not as strong for me. In a work crew I was happier when someone else managed. When I did manage the crew. I was always open to suggestions.
Not going out dressed, it probably doesn’t have as profound an affect on me as those who do. I do think it has had some affect though. My empathy for genetic women is definitely stronger for sure!