Reply To: Which Washroom do I use?

[Eileen Bach]

If you are presenting as a woman, passable or not, use the Ladies. Please sit down to do your business, like a lady. Seems an obvious point to make, but I’ve seen otherwise.

That’s nice you have a support group to out with. However, when more than 3-4 of you gals get together, it becomes obvious that you’re not genetic women. At most venues, people don’t care anyway. Why confirm any doubts by using any but the Ladies?

If you are nervous using the facilities, even the walk to and from, do like most women do, grab a friend to go along. Safety in numbers, both at the table, or in the washroom.

Hugs, Eileen

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