Speaking from the gender fluid perspective on tattoos, as you can see, I don’t mind them. lol.
My tattoos all have a very personal meaning to me. Each one represents something else. My arm is a myriad, a conglomeration of many different pieces built to form a themed sleeve. My shoulder, my nationality, my chest, a tattoo of the Buddha. Shayamuni. I have a shoulder tat on my back… and also.. *wink* a tramp stamp that I designed myself – a lousy tribal that contains my first initial which is stylized to represent my given first initial AND my chosen first initial. My tattoos are part of my identity and my life story.
Tattoos are not for everyone. They are for me. They are very personal, and I’m so glad to hear that you love your tattoos, and that they had an unexpected, wondrously positive effect. Be you, Do you. Love you!