Tara, it is such a huge relief to be out and not to have to hide Tara, isn’t it!!
Glad you are leaving her some space to prossess all of this. Don’t know how much you need to let Tara out giving yourself more Tara time.
For each of us it is different, some NEED to transition ( go all the way) , some here are OK to just underdress or dress in private. We are everywhere in between!
Similarly our SO’s are all over the place, anywhere from not accepting (wanting a divorce) to fully accepting and even participating in our CD.
One of the biggest problems is each of our situations changes our own desires/needs? changes and our SO outlook changes
The key — COMMUNICATION!!!!!!
All the best to you, hope you can both find a good place for the 2 of you.
. . .Cassie