Hard question to answer. I think I’d be mostly the same. I still would’ve been an outsider in school, probably into the same geeky things I’m into as it is, likely would’ve taken similar ups and downs in my career and life path.
I only wish I’d known what gender fluid meant when I was younger. I’m coming around to accepting that as my identity, and perhaps I would’ve been happier accepting that earlier. Sometimes I wish I’d been born a woman.