I am a GG and my husband is a CD.
First of all, you have come to the right place for support and education. I’ve found these ladies to be a tremendous asset in my life right now. There is also a section just for us SO and that has much to offer as well.
My advice is to be proactive when things are beginning to bother you. I am new to navigating this journey and have suffered “the dreaded whiplash.” It is a recipe for disaster when you feel like you aren’t enough or doing enough to be pretty yourself. An open and honest conversation is the only way to go. Set your boundaries in order to preserve the greater good. You don’t push your partner not to do things and likewise they shouldn’t push you to do things.
Your partner has found his unicorn and risks scaring it away by trying to tie-dye it…He needs to see the value in what an amazing partner you are without making you feel like less.
- This reply was modified 1 month ago by Betty Rockwell.