Hi Mary Jane.
It seems to me that we end up getting to a very similar destination while traveling similar yet not identical roads.
I believe that “passing” shouldn’t be the goal. At the end of the day, being accepted is what can bring joy to your heart and soul. And the only way to find acceptance from others starts by accepting your own self.
Only then you can be really confident, be able to express who you are, instead of having to pretend being somebody else