Reply To: Hi my name is Chris.

[Paulette Parfois]

Hi Chris, welcome. Please don’t feel you cannot ‘pass’. In fact ‘passing’ is SO overrated! It’s ‘blending’ that counts. By that I mean there are many, many CIS women who in my opinion would not ‘pass’, but yet they do because they act and dress as women and call attention to themselves. I suggest you do what I did when I first ventured out- I did it in small ‘baby steps’. I quickly learned if anybody noticed , they didn’t care. Now I go about freely and enjoy my time as Paulette. Sure, they are times when I might get a ‘knowing look’, but there are also times when some’dirty old man’ will wink and smile at me, so it’s worth it. Please keep us informed about your adventures- it’s up to you to have them, and I know you will! Hugs, Paulette