Hello Orietta and welcome. Such a unique name I had to look up the meaning of it. The name means “gold, golden, gilded, gold-colored, beautiful, precious, excellent, magnificent, (in some cases, the meaning is interpreted as “shining, beautiful”
With the statement you made you obviously have some insight into him. Maybe this was some of the attraction as well. Would it be all that bad to pursue what might make him a better and happier person. You will never know until you try. It could be a wonderful journey for both and you may just find out you enjoy the other person within him as well. Only both of you will know for sure.
Either way, my best to you and enjoy reading the forums here. There is a lot to offer on both accounts.