Really interesting question and useful in reflecting on how amazing your partner is for accepting you after coming out to them.
I think it would simply come down to whether we still felt a sexual attraction and yearned to cuddle, be intimate and still be proud to call her my partner. Very hard to know for sure but I love my wife for who she is and if she did not change her personality then I think I would be fine with her CDing. I was attracted to her as she was a very pretty tomboy, good at sports, stronger than the average woman but could also be so pretty, feminine and cute too. She has always liked more masculine clothes but also enjoys being feminine but not really girly, just how I like. We both dislike body hair and I would find that a bit off-putting, but who knows?
Diversity is a wonderful and exciting thing!