This is a horrible situation your husband is putting in. In my simple opinion marriage is a relationship built on trust and respect of each other. When our SO’s accept (the lucky ones, including myself) our dressing that in itself is a truly wonderful gift within a marriage. Again in my opinion what he is asking / insisting is a hard no! This behaviour is over and beyond the acceptance of him wanting to crossdress. Apologies if I am to blunt but as someone said earlier life is not a dress rehearsal to be sad, anxious and unhappy. Good luck. Katie.